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This week · Filling your diary
Three offers in 18 months
What I do instead of discounting
Issue 05  ·  27 September 2026
 

Hi lovely,

In the 18 months since I opened The Hideaway, I've run three offers.

18 months, three offers
01 Twenty percent off in my very first month
02 One giveaway
03 One Black Friday offer

Other than that, I never discount my treatments. Not even to fill a cancellation.

When I tell other therapists this, the question is always the same:

“So how do you fill your gaps?”

Before I get to that, I want to explain why I don't rely on discounts in the first place.

The problem with discounting
Discounting doesn't get you more clients. It gets you different ones.

Price-led offers attract price-led clients, and when the deal ends, so do they. Meanwhile, your regulars learn to wait for the next one.

My clients don't come to me because of discounts. They come because they value my time and my treatments.

Now, that doesn't mean I'm against offering a discount. But it's really important that your diary doesn't rely on them for bookings.

So how do I fill my gaps? It's not clever marketing. It's a few small things I do every week. None of them feel like much on their own, and that's the point.

 
 
01
The next booking happens before they leave

Most of my diary is filled by clients who are already in my treatment room. Before a client gets up, I ask when they'd like their next one. I don't ask if they'd like one. It's a natural part of the appointment, not a sales pitch, and it means my diary builds weeks ahead instead of days.

02
Cancellations go to my regulars first, at full price

When someone cancels, I don't post a cheap last-minute slot. I message the clients who've told me they'd jump at an earlier appointment. They get first pick because they're loyal, not because they waited for a deal.

I also keep a note of the clients who are happy to take a last-minute appointment. So if something opens up on the day, I already know exactly who to message.

Nine times out of ten the gap is filled within the hour, and nobody booked in that day has paid more than anyone else.

Think about it from their side
If someone cancels and I offer that slot out cheaper, what does that say to the clients booked in that same day? They kept their appointments, they paid full price, and someone else just got the same treatment for less.
That's not fair on them.
03
When I want to treat people, I add. I don't cut.

Sometimes I do want to say thank you. When I do, it's an extra: a longer scalp massage, an add-on they haven't tried, a little something to take home. The price stays the same.

Clients remember how they felt, not the £5 they saved.
04
If I post a gap, it's an opportunity, not a deal

If a slot is still free after I've messaged my regulars, I'll share it on my stories. But how you word it changes everything.

The same empty slot
“Last-minute 20% off, Thursday 2pm!”
Sounds like you're struggling to fill it.
“A rare Thursday 2pm has just opened up. First to message gets it.”
Sounds like you're in demand. Because you are.

A gap isn't a problem you need to fix with a price cut. It's a chance for someone who's been waiting to finally get in.

That's really it. A diary that doesn't rely on discounts isn't built in one big launch. It's built in the small moments where most of us rush: at the end of an appointment, and in how you respond to a cancellation.

In-demand businesses aren't the cheapest. They're the ones people feel they can't get anywhere else.
 
A tip to try this week
Start a “first dibs” list.
Next time a client says “let me know if anything comes up sooner”, write their name down. Then when a cancellation lands, you have someone to message straight away, at full price, before you're tempted to discount.
 
More ways to keep your diary full

If you want to go further, here are a few more small changes that make a big difference over time. Pick one or two, not all of them.

01
Change one word when you rebook
Swap “Would you like to book again?” for “When would you like your next one?” The first invites a no. The second assumes a yes.
02
Know when each regular is due
Note their usual gap on their record, every four weeks, every eight. Then you can message them before they drift, not after.
03
Have a clear cancellation policy
A set notice period, and a deposit if it suits you. Fewer gaps in the first place means fewer to fill.
04
Save your “slot available” message
Keep it as a note on your phone. When a cancellation lands, you can send it in seconds instead of panicking and reaching for a discount.
05
Plan your busy seasons early
Open your December diary to regulars first, in October. They feel looked after, and your busiest month is booked before it starts.
 
Something personal

I've got a little secret. Behind the scenes, I've been working on some new things to help therapists, and I'm genuinely so excited about them.

I can't share much just yet, but everything I've been writing about here, and all the questions you've been sending me, has shaped what's coming. So keep a look out. You'll be the first to hear.

Speak soon,
Amy 🤎
THE HIDEAWAY 
P.S. Hit reply and tell me: how do you handle last-minute cancellations right now? I read every one.
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